The Swinger Lifestyle, Dynamite or Bombed?

[Neko]

the swinger lifestyle, for those who are too sexual active and constantly seeking an exciting redlight lifestyle. depending on your views on swings, you may see swingers to either be the fun-lovers of the 21st century or an impending epidemic. Swingers, being so honestly sexually active, can be seen to be the spreaders of loveless sex OR can be seen to promote to people that they should and can be honest with their sex drive. Why meow if you're a dog?

It's a very simple process. You locate the girl you wish to spend the night with. Go up to her and exercise your PUA. From the intellectual exchange, the girl would've given you her answer already. Then the classic "let's take this somewhere quiet" or maybe something like "let's continue this back at my place" to seal the deal. Simple, clean, fun. I personally enjoyed and respected (while i was single) this lifestyle for it's honesty and efficiency.

I find the swinger lifestyle quite charming and fascinating and fun, what's your take on this?

[Raes]

here's my opinion. I wrote this on my blog a few month back and it expresses the way that I veiw sex.

I think the majority of guys don’t realize how wonderful a meaningful relationship with one of the opposite sex can be. They’re too busy trying to play their cards right so they can end up swapping bodily-goo, but it’s so much better when both parties are worried about who is trying to get in who’s pants. You can just stroll along and build a structure of support and friendship and when the timing is right, get married and have all the pants-less parties you want. See, sex is like tape. It sticks great, but only if you use it on one surface, as soon as you rip it off that first surface it loses some of it’s stick. And if you keep ripping and re-sticking then pretty soon you’re tape is going to be all bunged up with weird bits of hair and nastiness. That’s why I’m waiting untill I find that one surface I’m going to stick to forever. Because sex isn’t only physical, it also has a spiritual nature to it too. It’s about two bodies harmoized with eachother to create a new life.
But yeah I’m done talking about sex now.

Again, that's just my oppinion, I'm not saying what you're doing is wrong, or that I look down on you. This is just how I've chosen to live.

[Snowy]

I agree on what Raes is saying. But I'm also giving some credit to the swingers lifestyle. I guess it just gives an option to people who really have a huge sex drive and likes to experience and practice sex with different partners. I'm not a swinger nor had I ever been one myself, so I'm really speaking groundless things here. I think I can identify more with Raes, but I can see where Swingers are going.

5-6 years and almost getting married.

[Krow]

...I personally enjoyed and respected (while i was single) this lifestyle for it's honesty and efficiency.
I find the swinger lifestyle quite charming and fascinating and fun, what's your take on this?

Wow, I didn't know you were in a relationship Neko...

I guess I'll have to agree mostly with Raes' view on the spiritual side of sex - While I can certainly see the attractive side of the swinger life style, I don't think it's what something I would ever really want. I guess it's all dependent on who you are as a person.

In a way I kinda envy you guys, having found that special someone already.

[Snowy]

...I personally enjoyed and respected (while i was single) this lifestyle for it's honesty and efficiency.
I find the swinger lifestyle quite charming and fascinating and fun, what's your take on this?

Wow, I didn't know you were in a relationship Neko...

I guess I'll have to agree mostly with Raes' view on the spiritual side of sex - While I can certainly see the attractive side of the swinger life style, I don't think it's what something I would ever really want. I guess it's all dependent on who you are as a person.

In a way I kinda envy you guys, having found that special someone already.

You'll find one soon enough Krow And then marriage. And then that's when things can either turn very interesting, or can turn into living hell for you.